Several months ago I read a study of why some churches
remained comparatively small while others went on to become mega churches. They concluded that, in general, smaller
church leaders focused on relationships. Medium sized church leaders tended to focus on
programs such as the music program, youth programs, senior programs, etc. Leaders of large churches tended to focus on
organization, much like the leaders of major corporations. Leaders
of small and medium congregations were encouraged to become more focused on
building their organization in order to grow their churches.
Unfortunately, such an approach overlooks the most basic
principle of Christianity. Christianity
is about developing a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. As the
relationship with Christ grows, it begins to affect relationships with one’s
family, coworkers, and other Christians.
Without the relationship with Christ, the other relationships are merely
human relationships having nothing to do with Christianity. Even a small church can lose their Christian
nature if the focus shifts to other relationships, rather than the relationship
with Christ. Medium and larger churches
need to make a special effort to focus on that relationship with Christ if they
are to avoid becoming merely a religious business.
To build a church that is pleasing to God we must start with
the understanding that God created mankind and that he loves them as we see in
John 3:16-17. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that
whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to
condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.” The depth of his love is sown by the fact
that his demonstration did not depend on our response to his sacrifice,
according to I John 4:10. “Herein is love, not that we loved God, but
that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.”
The depth of our love for God is based on our understanding
of his love for us, as I John 4:19 tells us.
“We love him, because he first
loved us.” Real love requires
getting to know even the unpleasant sides of a person. I Corinthians 13:6 tells us real love “Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in
the truth.” Infatuation produces an
unrealistic picture of a person but real love wants the truth. We must understand that not only is God a God
of love and mercy, he is also a God of justice and wrath, and will not ignore
sin. Ephesians 5:5-6 warns, “For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor
unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in
the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no
man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath
of God upon the children of disobedience.”
Only as we understand how much God hates sin can we begin to
understand how much he loves us, that he is willing to forgive us and cleanse
us from all our sin. As we begin to
appreciate the depth of his love for us, we begin to want to show our love by
pleasing him. In John 14:21, Jesus said,
“He that hath my commandments, and
keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of
my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.” We will begin to focus on what he wants, not
to gain his favor, but to show our appreciation. John 14:24 warns, “He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and the word which ye
hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.”
Jesus and God will manifest themselves to those who love him
in miraculous way, and II Corinthians 3:18 promises that as a result, we will
become increasingly like him. “But we
all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed
into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.”
Ephesians 4:11-16 tells us. “And he gave some, apostles;
and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For
the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of
the body of Christ: Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the
knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the
stature of the fulness of Christ: That we henceforth be no more children,
tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the
sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is
the head, even Christ: From whom the whole body fitly joined together and
compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual
working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the
edifying of itself in love.”
For God’s purpose to be fulfilled, Pastors and teachers will
have to help us get a complete understanding of who Christ is and how much he
loved us. They will have to teach about
his love, mercy, and grace but also about his judgment and wrath against those
who reject him and his standards. The
focus will have to be on building a relationship with Christ rather than on
other things. If we focus on our job of edifying
or building the Christians, God will build the church.
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