God had given specific instructions that Samson was to be
raised as a Nazarite, a person dedicated to God from his birth, and from time
to time, he experienced God’s power.
Unfortunately, like a lot of people raised in Christian homes, he knew
all the correct behaviors and rituals, but had a bad attitude toward God’s
commands, as we see in Judges 14:1-4. “And Samson went down to Timnath, and saw a
woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines. And he came up, and told his father and his
mother, and said, I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the
Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife. Then his father and his mother said unto him,
Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my
people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines? And
Samson said unto his father, Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well. But his father and his mother knew not that it
was of the LORD, that he sought an occasion against the Philistines: for at
that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel.”
Almost five hundred years before, in Exodus 34:12-16, God
had forbidden Israel to get involved with
people who worshipped other Gods. “Take heed to thyself, lest thou make a
covenant with the inhabitants of the land whither thou goest, lest it be for a
snare in the midst of thee: But ye shall destroy their altars, break their
images, and cut down their groves: For thou shalt worship no other god: for the
LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God: Lest thou make a covenant with
the inhabitants of the land, and they go a whoring after their gods, and do
sacrifice unto their gods, and one call thee, and thou eat of his sacrifice; And thou take of their daughters unto thy
sons, and their daughters go a whoring after their gods, and make thy sons go a
whoring after their gods.” One of the Ten Commandments was “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy
days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee,” in Exodus
20:12.”
Samson was ignoring both of these commands, insisting on
marrying a Philistine woman, bossing his parents around, and ignoring their
concerns. Apparently this was not the first time he had insisted on hanging out
with Philistine girls, and his parents were concerned that he was disobeying
God. They didn’t understand that since
Samson wouldn’t do what he was supposed to do because of God’s command, God
would use his rebellious attitude to accomplish his purposes.
Knowing that God had chosen Samson to lead his people, his
parents unwillingly went along with his demands, going to Timnath to make the
wedding arrangements. On their way, God
sent a young lion to warn Samson that he shouldn’t do what he was doing, in
Judges 14:5-7. “Then went Samson down, and his father and his mother, to Timnath, and
came to the vineyards of Timnath: and, behold, a young lion roared against him.
And the spirit of the LORD came mightily
upon him, and he rent him as he would have rent a kid, and he had nothing in
his hand: but he told not his father or his mother what he had done. And he went down, and talked with the woman;
and she pleased Samson well.” Samson
easily killed the lion, so he didn’t take the warning to heart.
A short time later, Samson returned to Timnath as arranged
to marry the woman. On his way, he
stopped to look at the dead lion’s carcass, as Judges 14:8-9 tells us. “And
after a time he returned to take her, and he turned aside to see the carcase of
the lion: and, behold, there was a swarm of bees and honey in the carcase of
the lion. And he took thereof in his
hands, and went on eating, and came to his father and mother, and he gave them,
and they did eat: but he told not them that he had taken the honey out of the
carcase of the lion.”
Finding that some bees had built a hive in the carcass, took
some of the honey, and gave some to his parents without telling them where it
came from, knowing they probably would not eat it if he told them it had been
taken from a dead body since anything that touched a dead body was to be
considered unclean according to Leviticus 11.
By touching the carcass, Samson was breaking his Nazarite vow, according
to Numbers 6:6. “All the days that
he separateth himself unto the LORD he shall come at no dead body.” Clearly,
Samson did not take God’s commands or his vow very seriously.
Following the Philistine customs, Samson paid for the wedding. To make it more exciting, Samson bet the
Philistines could not guess his riddle, in Judges 14:10-14. “So his
father went down unto the woman: and Samson made there a feast; for so used the
young men to do. And it came to pass,
when they saw him, that they brought thirty companions to be with him. And Samson said unto them, I will now put
forth a riddle unto you: if ye can certainly declare it me within the seven
days of the feast, and find it out, then I will give you thirty sheets and
thirty change of garments: But if ye cannot declare it me, then shall ye give
me thirty sheets and thirty change of garments. And they said unto him, Put
forth thy riddle, that we may hear it. And he said unto them, Out of the eater came
forth meat, and out of the strong came forth sweetness. And they could not in
three days expound the riddle.”
It was quite a significant bet, as everything was hand made
from hand woven cloth, and in todays money would be like buying designer
suits. Samson was sure he couldn’t lose
as there was no way they could know about him killing the lion and taking honey
out of its carcass. Realizing they had no hope of guessing and unwilling to
suffer a loss, the wedding guests threatened to kill his wife’s family if she
didn’t tell them the answer to the riddle, in Judges 14:15-18. “And it
came to pass on the seventh day, that they said unto Samson's wife, Entice thy
husband, that he may declare unto us the riddle, lest we burn thee and thy
father's house with fire: have ye called us to take that we have? is it not so?
And Samson's wife wept
before him, and said, Thou dost but hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast put
forth a riddle unto the children of my people, and hast not told it me. And he
said unto her, Behold, I have not told it my father nor my mother, and shall I
tell it thee? And she wept before him
the seven days, while their feast lasted: and it came to pass on the seventh
day, that he told her, because she lay sore upon him: and she told the riddle
to the children of her people. And the
men of the city said unto him on the seventh day before the sun went down, What
is sweeter than honey? and what is stronger than a lion? And he said unto them,
If ye had not plowed with my heifer, ye had not found out my riddle.”
Angry that they had cheated, Samson went to Ashkelon,
another Philistine city, and killed thirty Philistines, taking their clothing
to pay his gambling debt, according to Judges 14:19. “And
the spirit of the LORD came upon him, and he went down to Ashkelon, and slew
thirty men of them, and took their spoil, and gave change of garments unto them
which expounded the riddle. And his anger was kindled, and he went up to his
father's house.” Angry at her betrayal, Samson went home for a couple of
months, refusing to speak to his wife.
Convinced Samson would not want her anymore, her parents
married his wife off to the best man.
When Samson finally decided to forgive her and went back to get her, her
father was really upset, offering to let him take her younger sister instead, as
we see in Judges 14:20-15:2. “But Samson's wife was given to his
companion, whom he had used as his friend. But it came to pass within a while after, in
the time of wheat harvest, that Samson visited his wife with a kid; and he
said, I will go in to my wife into the chamber. But her father would not suffer
him to go in. And her father said, I
verily thought that thou hadst utterly hated her; therefore I gave her to thy
companion: is not her younger sister fairer than she? take her, I pray thee,
instead of her.”
Samson got mad again, and decided to take revenge, as
described in Judges 15:3-5. “And Samson said concerning them, Now shall
I be more blameless than the Philistines, though I do them a displeasure. And Samson went and caught three hundred
foxes, and took firebrands, and turned tail to tail, and put a firebrand in the
midst between two tails. And when he had
set the brands on fire, he let them go into the standing corn of the
Philistines, and burnt up both the shocks, and also the standing corn, with the
vineyards and olives.”
In an effort to mollify Samson, the Philistines executed the
entire family, in Judges 15:6. “Then the Philistines said, Who hath done
this? And they answered, Samson, the son in law of the Timnite, because he had
taken his wife, and given her to his companion. And the Philistines came up,
and burnt her and her father with fire.”
Still unsatisfied, Samson killed a lot of Philistines, as we
see in Judges 15:7-8. “And Samson said unto them, Though ye have
done this, yet will I be avenged of you, and after that I will cease. And he smote them hip and thigh with a great
slaughter: and he went down and dwelt in the top of the rock Etam.” When he was finished, Samson went to the
top of the rock Etam where he could be alone.
He was far more concerned with his own feelings than with the job of
leading Israel.