Wednesday, April 24, 2013

David Allows Absalom To Return

II Samuel 14:1-22

“Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king's heart was toward Absalom.  And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead: And come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him. So Joab put the words in her mouth.” (II Samuel 14:1-3) 

For three years after Absalom killed Amnon, there had been no communication with David.  Though he had been very angry at Absalom, David still missed him and worried about him.  Joab realized that David was concerned and began to try to bring about a reconciliation.

He got a wise woman from Tekoah, a village about ten miles from Jerusalem to come and tell David a story to elicit his sympathies.  She was to disguise herself as someone who had been through a lot of suffering to reinforce her story.

“And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king, she fell on her face to the ground, and did obeisance, and said, Help, O king. 

And the king said unto her, What aileth thee? 

And she answered, I am indeed a widow woman, and mine husband is dead.  And thy handmaid had two sons, and they two strove together in the field, and there was none to part them, but the one smote the other, and slew him.  And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid, and they said, Deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him, for the life of his brother whom he slew; and we will destroy the heir also: and so they shall quench my coal which is left, and shall not leave to my husband neither name nor remainder upon the earth.” (II Samuel 14:4-7) 

The story the woman told was of her two sons fighting, with one killing the other.  In accordance with the law, her relatives called for the execution of the murderer.  She only had the two children and if they execute the second one she and her husband will have no heirs.  She realized it was the law, but she felt it unfair.

“And the king said unto the woman, Go to thine house, and I will give charge concerning thee. 

And the woman of Tekoah said unto the king, My lord, O king, the iniquity be on me, and on my father's house: and the king and his throne be guiltless. 

And the king said, Whosoever saith ought unto thee, bring him to me, and he shall not touch thee any more. 

Then said she, I pray thee, let the king remember the LORD thy God, that thou wouldest not suffer the revengers of blood to destroy any more, lest they destroy my son. 

And he said, As the LORD liveth, there shall not one hair of thy son fall to the earth.” (II Samuel 14:8-11) 


David told her to go home and not worry about it as he would take care of it.  If any one challenged her protecting her son, she could send them to David.   She was thankful, offering to take responsibility for any backlash or judgment for allowing a murderer to escape and asking that the avengers of blood be forbidden to carry out their purpose.  David assured her he would do so.

 “Then the woman said, Let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak one word unto my lord the king.

 And he said, Say on.

And the woman said, Wherefore then hast thou thought such a thing against the people of God? for the king doth speak this thing as one which is faulty, in that the king doth not fetch home again his banished.  For we must needs die, and are as water spilled on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again; neither doth God respect any person: yet doth he devise means, that his banished be not expelled from him. 

Now therefore that I am come to speak of this thing unto my lord the king, it is because the people have made me afraid: and thy handmaid said, I will now speak unto the king; it may be that the king will perform the request of his handmaid.  For the king will hear, to deliver his handmaid out of the hand of the man that would destroy me and my son together out of the inheritance of God.  Then thine handmaid said, The word of my lord the king shall now be comfortable: for as an angel of God, so is my lord the king to discern good and bad: therefore the LORD thy God will be with thee.” (II Samuel 14:12-17)

The woman then questioned David if he didn’t think it unfair to save her son while refusing to forgive his own son.  As she pointed out, every person dies, and God doesn’t play favorites, but he does provide a means of forgiveness so people can be reconciled to him if they will.  She had come to David, believing he would be willing to at least consider her request and seek God’s leadership.

David had not been executed for having Uriah killed and thus understood that God can forgive even murder,.  She complimented him as one who spoke as an angel or or messenger of God.

“Then the king answered and said unto the woman, Hide not from me, I pray thee, the thing that I shall ask thee. 

And the woman said, Let my lord the king now speak. 

And the king said, Is not the hand of Joab with thee in all this?” (II Samuel 14;18-19a)

The story was uncannily similar to David’s situation, and when she asked David why he didn’t do the same for his own son, he realized that only Joab was party to all the information.  He asked if Joab was behind her coming.

" And the woman answered and said, As thy soul liveth, my lord the king, none can turn to the right hand or to the left from ought that my lord the king hath spoken: for thy servant Joab, he bade me, and he put all these words in the mouth of thine handmaid: To fetch about this form of speech hath thy servant Joab done this thing: and my lord is wise, according to the wisdom of an angel of God, to know all things that are in the earth.” (II Samuel 14:19b-20)

She acknowledged that it had been Joab’s idea and plan.  She was amazed that David so quickly figured out Joab’s part in it.

“And the king said unto Joab, Behold now, I have done this thing: go therefore, bring the young man Absalom again.

 And Joab fell to the ground on his face, and bowed himself, and thanked the king: and Joab said, To day thy servant knoweth that I have found grace in thy sight, my lord, O king, in that the king hath fulfilled the request of his servant.” (II Samuel 14:21-22)

David instructed Joab to bring Absalom home, and Joab thanked him for doing so.

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